Tina Lewis Rowe

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Take Photos At Work–Preferably Showing People Smiling

I recently attended a high school class reunion. If you must know, it was my 50th year high school reunion, for Arkansas City, Kansas Senior High.  I graduated when I was 5 or 6.

My high school friend, Sara Bly, worked like crazy to compile a DVD of video and PowerPoint, complete with music and comprised of old photos, scans of newspaper articles and other memorabilia. I helped by nagging her about it and making copies of her final product. It’s truly a masterpiece and I encourage you to start saving items now, no matter what your age, so your high school class can do something similar.  (Even if right now you don’t think you care.)

As  I looked over the photos, I realized, more than ever before, how many classmates have passed away. Their stories stopped right after high school or years later. Some were killed in Viet Nam, some died in car accidents, many fought cancer bravely until the end, heart failure took some and several ended their own lives.

The girl on the left is Tina Springgate, a funny and very intelligent girl and woman, who died from cancer shortly after our 30th reunion. She and I were on the Debate Team and she also was on the staff of the school paper,The Arklight. The last time I saw Tina she told me, “You’ll get to be the only ‘Tina’ before long.”

The girl on the right is Leslie Neal, my co-Feature Editor on the paper.  We also co-wrote a column called, “Gleanings from the Grapevine”, in which we made what we thought were hysterically witty comments about various things around school, especially about the teachers.  Leslie committed suicide when she was in her early twenties and I’ve never known why.  I found out later that she was living in Denver at the time and I’ve wondered if I could have said or done something to make a difference–probably not, but I would have liked to try.

I’m in the middle, smiling with the other two–none of us having any idea what life would hold or how soon it would be over for two of us three.

I’ve included the photo of Tina Springgate, Leslie and me, not to be sad or morose about it, but to say that photos are still the best way to capture our memories. Even a written journal benefits from a photo or two of the author and others.  However, take them in a way that gives people a chance to look their best and to smile for the camera, rather than the candid, often embarrassing photos you might take with your phone/camera when no one is prepared.  A few candid shots are OK, but most women want to be ready to be photographed and both men and women look better when they are sitting or standing still, have their mouths closed and are looking moderately happy.

Tell people a day ahead of time that the next day is photo day for those who agree. Don’t force someone to get their picture taken, just let them see that you’re not making a huge production out of it. If your supervisor or manager is available, have a photo-op so people can get pictures taken with him or her. Some people will decline, but almost everyone who gets his or her photo taken with the boss, will be glad about it later.

In the 1970’s, Paul Anka sang the Nichols/Lane song that became a Kodak standard, “The Times of Your Life”.  It’s easy for us to think of saving photos of family members and close friends, when we consider how quickly time passes.  Think also of those you work with or meet with at work.  Even the ones who irritate you, frustrate you or make you dislike them strongly, will one day–maybe sooner than you think–bring back worthwhile memories of that time of your life.

June 10th, 2014 Posted by | Food, Fitness, Fun, Life and Work | 7 comments


  1. We did the photo op you mentioned in your presentation to LAWPOA and it went over really well with a lot of laughter. I agree about posing. No one likes the ones where they aren’t ready for the photo.

    I was touched by your story about the three of you in high school and how things turned out. Tina, you are such an inspiration to so many people that I’m grateful you not only survive, you also thrive and help other people thrive too. I’m sorry about the other young women in the photo, but I’m glad you are here. R.

    Comment by R.H. K. | June 20, 2014

  2. I attended my 20th year reunion last year and already we had lost a lot of classmates. I like the idea of photos at work and realized when I read this that I have held on to the few I have. So, I will take some more this next week!

    Comment by Mama Maria | June 20, 2014

  3. This is a great article and I agree with you. Phyllis used to take photos of often. Last year she sent a bunch to all of us and it was very fun. She loves being retired but we sure do miss her! Come out to see us sometime. DK

    Comment by D.K. | June 22, 2014

  4. I wondered where you were. Enjoyed this but especially liked the photo and the story behind it. I found an old photo last year with my first car partner and me and it brought back a lot of memories…to the point that I almost made a fool of myself. I sent it to his widow and you can imagine the thanks I got. I wish I had more of those, but we didn’t take as many photos back then.

    Comment by Notadonutfan | June 22, 2014

  5. Your smile looks exactly the same…and I can’t believe you graduated that long ago. You’re holding up well! I hate having my picture taken, so I wouldn’t want to do it at work, but I do like to take pictures of other people.

    Comment by Kathy M | June 24, 2014

  6. I really enjoyed this Tina. I also enjoyed seeing you and all the others at our reunion. In my mind we just graduated but my body says I am closer to the end.

    Comment by Larry gilmore | August 16, 2014

  7. Tina, this is an awesome article especially since I was one of the ACHS class of 1964! I didn’t get to attend the reunion because of our granddaughter’ wedding but would like to know if it is possible to buy one of Sara’s cd? I do not have her email to check that out so do you know? I really a appreciate your help!

    Sandi Collins Hedinger

    Comment by Sandi Collins Hedinger | August 16, 2014

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